Wed 29 Jul 2009
The week that changed my life.
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My Compassion Child & Family

Nuevos Amigos Christian School Child

Making a beads bracelet
I have seen things in Ecuador that no man should ever have to see let alone live but at the same time I have seen joy, satisfaction, contentment, commitment to one’s family, love and the love for God that I have never seen before. But let’s start from the beginning. After several meetings at Rivertree with Rick and the team we were finally ready to go.
Saturday, July 18th, 2009:
The day has finally arrived. We all met at the Akron Canton Airport except for Rachel, Jonathan and Karissa. They would meet up with us in Atlanta. During the flight I had a lot of time to think and pray. I really wanted to make an impact on my compassion child, her family, and the Ecuadorian people. At the same time I needed this trip to make an impact on me and help me to understand who I am, what is really important in life and what God has planned for me and my life. I am a very detailed person that focuses on details, tasks and time and that is not the culture in Ecuador. It’s relationships that are important to them.
The flight from Atlanta to Quito Ecuador was smooth. After arriving in Quito we took a bus to Extreme Response (ER) that would become our home away from home for the next week. We arrived around midnight, unpacked and went to bed with lots of anticipation for tomorrow and the week ahead.
Sunday, July 19th, 2009:
Our 1st full day in Ecuador has arrived. The morning started off with devotions and then we were off to church in San Pablo. The service was amazing. They had a full praise band with singers. Even though everything was in Spanish it didn’t matter. The spirit of the Lord was there. Michelle translated the sermon in English. The message was simple but from the heart. After the service it was a joy to meet everyone. So much love. One thing I did notice was that the service was focused on worship and not time or structure. It appeared that there was no set time for the service to end. We were there at least 1½ hours. In the states people would have been looking at their watch for the last 30 minutes wondering when the service would end.
Later that day we went to the park to play with the kids. What a beautiful park and so many children and families. We had a nerf football and started throwing it around. It didn’t take long until children started coming and playing, too. Again, the language barrier did not hinder the interaction with the children. Later that evening after returning to Extreme Response we had our debrief with Rick about the day. It had been a wonderful 1st day.
Monday, July 20th, 2009:
After a really good night’s sleep the morning started off with devotions and then we were off to Nuevos Amigos Christian School for a work day. Some of the team painted a classroom while others painted the railing outside and others worked on the patio removing the grass and rocks. I worked on the patio and it really felt good to get in some hard work. The grass roots are so large and deeply rooted it took a pick to dig them out. The ground was also full of rock making the task really difficult but we were able to finish it.
After finishing the patio work we still had some time left so we played soccer with the kids at the school. They are really good. I also had the pleasure of taking pictures of and with the children. They really enjoyed taking their pictures with us. The children are so loving. The soccer field was just dirt with rocks at the ends as well as left over construction materials. In the states it would have been considered too dangerous for kids to play but there it is all they have and they are really thankful to have it.
After playing with the children I had the honor of going to the home of a local family for dinner. It was amazing and the food so good but I also knew that this was more food than the family would have to eat for several days. It was hard to sit at the table and eat this wonderful food while others in the family sat there with no food in order for me to have enough. I made sure that there wasn’t a single piece of rice left on my plate after being given such an honor.
The home was clean but so small and about a dozen people lived there. In the US a family of 2 would have found this home to be too small. Living there were the parents and their children as well as their aunts, uncles and all of their children. I had written on a piece of paper the Spanish words to tell them that they had a beautiful family and that the food was really good. They showed so much appreciation that I made the effort to say this to them in Spanish. It was an amazing day.
After returning to the ER we had our debrief with Rick about the day. I really enjoy the debriefs and hearing all of the team express their feelings about the day. The home that I went to for dinner was a family that would have been considered to be fairly well off. They even had some furniture. Others on the team went to homes that didn’t have much furniture. There was one house that was one large room with sheets making up the dividing walls.
Tuesday, July 21st, 2009:
After another really good night’s sleep the morning started off with devotions and then we were off to visit the Child Survival Project. This is a program for mothers that need help keeping their young children healthy. Actually, it’s a matter of survival for their children. The program is really amazing and the mothers we met were so appreciative and so full of love.
Today was the day that the trip became real. We all have seen the pictures of the homes that some of these families live in but it never really hits you until you are actually in one of those homes and that happened today. After meeting with the mothers we went to one of the mothers homes. It was down a extremely run down alley and then there was a opening in a cement block wall. That opening led to a passage way that led to a door. After entering the door we were in her home that consisted of 1 dark room with plastic as the ceiling, a bed, a small table and a few shelves with a small amount of food on them. There were no appliances except for a small table top 2 burner stove. The bathroom was an outdoor shared facility and washing clothes was done in an open well that was outside, too. Sitting in this room I now know what true poverty is. She paid $20 a month for her rent and $35 a month for her 1 light bulb electric bill and water. After the visit Rick asked her if she could have anything she wanted for God to provide what would it be. Her answer was amazing. She only wanted to be able to keep what she currently had. To her this tiny 1 room hole in the wall was her home. To us in the US we wouldn’t keep our car in that room but to her she had all that she needed, was happy, had a husband that worked and made $55 a week and a healthy child.
What really struck me was that she at least had electric and water. There are other families that live in a single room wood structure, with a dirt floor, no electric, no running water with incomes of $120 a month or less. It’s hard to believe that they have even less than this mother has. When I see these people in these living conditions but still strong in their faith and love for each other I truly have nothing in my life to complain about.
Later that day we went back to the ER and had dinner with the compassion LDP students. This is a very small select group of individuals that were in the compassion program and then they are sponsored through college. They were explaining to us what it was like being sponsored through compassion and what the sponsors meant to them. The most important thing were the letters they received from their sponsors. After hearing that I will write even more to Gabriela.
Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009:
This morning our devotions was an exercise to hear God and then answer these questions. “What does God like about me” and “What about me pleases God”. This was very difficult for me. I hear others tell me how God speaks to them through their thoughts and dreams. I did my best on this exercise but it’s very hard for me to differentiate what thoughts come from me or God and then there are those thought you wish you didn’t have and you know that they didn’t come from God. I will continue to listen and pray that God we help me to hear him.
After the exercise we went to the Quito dump to see the children of the parents that work at the dump. There is a daycare there that watches their children. Before the daycare the children went to the Quito dump with them either on their backs on had to sit in a cardboard box for 10 to 12 hours.
The children at the daycare were wonderful and so beautiful. After playing with the kids we all walked down to the dump to see the parents working. I felt terrible seeing this. I felt as if we were looking down on these people from the structure above. It was the hardest thing to look at that I have ever seen. People sorting through raw trash to try and find plastic, glass, aluminum and cardboard to sell for recycling. It is very dangerous too due to the fast and continuous turnover of the garbage trucks coming and going. They wouldn’t even look up at us. They feel that they are a lower class of people since they work in the Quito dump but they are not and I really wanted to run down there and tell them that we are all equal in the sight of God. I also wanted to tell them that they should be proud that they do this to support their families. In the US people would not do this. It was a very disturbing sight. No one should have to do what I saw today.
To see a video of Quito Ecuador dump select the link below.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnaEmbaxhDo
After the dump we went to the soup kitchen called Pan de Vida. I was 1 of 5 of our team that was responsible for seeing that everyone washed and dried their hands. There were 102 children that showed up that night as well as many adults. It was also disturbing to see children show up without any parents or adults and them eat only some of the food and then take the rest home to the rest of the family.
Thursday, July 23rd, 2009:
There are no words to describe the joy that today brought to me. Today I met my compassion child, Gabriela. The day started off with our devotions at the ER and then we were off to meet our compassion children in the park. We passed a covered grandstand and saw the compassion children. While I was walking to the grandstand I heard the team yell to me, Jeff, its Gabriela. They were actually in the grass before the grandstand. I turned around and saw her running to me. Within seconds we were hugging each other while her mother was in tears. Along with her mother 2 additional children attended, too. They were Frank who is 9 and Karen who is 7. There were 2 additional children at home that were 13 and 16.
After long glorious hugs, kisses and introductions the team and their compassion children walked to the park. The park was beautiful with paddle boats and acres of green lawn to play games on. Before going on the paddle boats we went through the backpack of gifts I brought for Gabriela and her family. To my surprise they had a gift for me. It was an Ecuadorian souvenir that had a message on the bottom they wrote for me, 2 Ecuador wrist bracelets and a box of chocolate. It was such an honor to see Gabriela, her mother, brother and sister knowing that they had to travel all night on a bus for 10 hours to see me.
After going thought the backpack of gifts and seeing her mother’s tears as each item was removed from the backpack we all went for a paddleboat ride. After the paddleboat ride we went to a large grassy area in the park and played with the games and soccer ball I had bought her.
At 1pm we all had lunch together and then we left for the amusement park. At the amusement we all rode rides and played games. All 3 of the children won prizes at the games and they were so excited over these small stuffed animals that they won. Unfortunately, all good things come to an end and at 5:30pm we had to say our goodbyes. That was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my entire life. I have never seen such emotion, appreciation and love that I saw that day from my compassion child and her family.
Friday, July 24th, 2009:
Today after our morning devotions we headed back to the Nuevos Amigos Christian School for a carnival that the team put on for the children. What a day it was. There were 166 children at the carnival. We had Hawaiian leis for the girls and colored bracelets for the boys. The team broke up into different stations. We had tattoos, coloring, ring toss, stacked bottles to knock down, the leg race where we tied 2 people’s legs together and had them race and a football through a hoop toss. The children had a great time and the appreciation and love that day from the children was amazing. When the carnival was over we had a bag with prizes for all of the children to take home with them. Everyone was a winner that day.
Saturday, July 25th, 2009:
What a week it was and how fast the time went. We had one last opportunity to visit and play with the children one last time today and then we were off to the airport at 8pm for an all night flight back home. I am actually at the airport now as I finish this blog. In closing I have to say that this was an experience that I wouldn’t have missed, I will never forget and I will go back again.
My goal was to make an impact on the Ecuadorian people and my compassion child Gabriela but now looking back it is the impact that they made on me that was overwhelming and life changing. Please pray for the Ecuadorian people and for poverty stricken people all over the world and if you sponsor a compassion child go see them and take this trip. It will not only change their life but it will change yours.
To sponsor a compassion child go to http://www.compassion.com
Jeff Porter


